I recently had the pleasure of attending a humorous speech contest, and what an experience it was!
Eight different speakers took the stage, each delivering a carefully crafted speech designed to make the audience laugh. The topics were as varied as the personalities: from time travel and family stories to running experiences, life lessons, planning woes, the love of one’s life, and even a surprisingly funny take on dragonflies.
But beyond the jokes and clever premises, the real takeaway was the sheer diversity in delivery styles. It was a masterclass in realizing that public speaking is ultimately about finding where you are comfortable and delivering a speech in a way that is authentically you.
The power of diverse delivery styles
Every speaker brought their own style and strengths to the stage. In public speaking, we usually talk about four main ways to deliver a speech:
- Manuscript: reading it word-for-word
- Memorized: reciting it exactly as written
- Impromptu: speaking off the cuff, with no preparation
- Extemporaneous: preparing and practicing ahead of time, but using notes so it still feels natural and conversational
Each speaker spoke with preparation and comfort. Some speakers—storytellers—focused on a rich, narrative style, using character voices and dramatic pauses to draw the audience into their world. Their strength was emotional connection and vivid imagery.
Others were non-stop motion, maximizing their use of the stage, using exaggerated gestures and high energy.
The conversationalists delivered a more casual, intimate tone, speaking as if sharing a funny story with friends. Their strength was relatability and genuine warmth.
There is no single “right” way to deliver a speech. The key is to leverage your natural communication strengths.
Key areas of focus for every speaker
After the last speech was delivered, speakers shared their areas of focus for delivery on a bigger stage.
Every speaker understood that eye contact is more than just looking up; it’s a non-verbal connection. It involves sweeping the room, holding the gaze of different audience members, and making each person feel like the message is for them.
They talked about the importance of a well-prepared speech— one you know so well that you don’t have to cling to the script. Speakers reinforced the idea that the audience doesn’t know your script. That’s true. If you momentarily skip a line, swap two jokes, or rephrase a transition—that’s fine! The contest confirmed that the ability to deviate slightly, stay present and maintain the flow is the mark of a truly seasoned speaker.
Adapting to the space and adjusting vocal variety and projection was a take-away for one speaker who was more comfortable with an online, close-mic environment.
The ultimate lesson: Authenticity wins
The truth is, whether you’re talking about time-travel or dragonflies, the most memorable speeches are the ones where the speaker seems most comfortable in their own skin.
Are you working on your own speech? Find the style that feels most natural to you. Maybe you’re big and theatrical, maybe you’re more subtle with quiet humor, or maybe storytelling is where you shine. Whatever it is—lean into it. Put in the prep, make eye contact to really connect with your audience, and remember: your unique voice is your greatest strength.
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